Monday, April 27, 2009
A Cinderella Story...Happily Ever After
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Come Back To Me
The rain falls on my windows
And the coldness runs through my soul
And the rain falls, oh the rain falls
I don't want to be alone
I wish that I could photoshop
All our bad memories
Cuz the flashbacks, oh the flashbacks
Won't leave me alone
If you come back to me
I'll be all that you need
Baby come back to me
Let me make up for what happened in the past
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
Boy you're one in a million
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
You're one in a million (One in a million)
Lower East Side of Manhattan
She goes shopping for new clothes
And she buys this and she buys that
Just leave her alone
I wish that he would listen to her side of the story
It isn't that bad, it isn't that bad
And she's wiser for it now
I admit I cheated
Don't know why I did it
But I do regret it
Nothing I can do or say can change the past
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
Boy you're one in a million
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
You're one in a million (One in a million)
Everything I ever did
Heaven knows I'm sorry babe
I was too young to see
You were always there for me
And my curiosity got the better of me
Baby take it easy on me
Anything from A to Z
Call me what you wanna babe
I open my heart to thee
You are my priority
Can't you see you've punished me
More than enough already
Baby take it easy on me
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
Boy you're one in a million
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
You're one in a million (One in a million)
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
Boy you're one in a million
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
You're one in a million (One in a million)
*by Utada Hikaru
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Are You A Good Cook?
You Are an Excellent Cook |
You're a top cook, but you weren't born that way. It's taken a lot of practice, a lot of experimenting, and a lot of learning. It's likely that you have what it takes to be a top chef, should you have the desire... |
Friday, April 10, 2009
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU .
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU .
Falling in love is easy . It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship . Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies , instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?"
And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages breakdown . People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious.
But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make"love .
Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.
Remember this always :
"God determines who walks into your life.
It is up to you to decide who you let walk away,
who you let stay, and
who you refuse to let go"
Tuesday, April 7, 2009
My Heart's Feeling...
Your Heart is Feeling Safe |
Right now, all is good with your heart. And you intend on keeping it that way. Whether you're deeply in love or just looking, you know that your heart will be taken care of. You never risk your heart too much, but you don't hold it back either. You know who to trust your heart with. Deep down, your heart is susceptible to: Getting a little too comfortable Your current outlook on love: Calm and future oriented Your love life will improve if you: Treat other people's hearts the way you expect yours to be treated Watch out for: Taking the people you're dating for granted |
Thursday, December 25, 2008
Correct Way of Cooking Instant Noodles
This is the WRONG method of cooking the instant noodles.
By doing this, when we actually boil the ingredients in the powder, normally with MSG, it will change the molecular structures of the MSG causing it to be toxic.
The other thing that you may or may not realize is that, the noodles are coated with wax and it will take around 4 to 5 days for the body to excrete the wax after you have taken the noodles.
CORRECT METHOD :
1. boil the noodles in a pot with water.
2. once the noodles is cooked, take out the noodles, and throw away the water which contains wax.
3. boil another pot of water till boiling and put the noodles into the hot boiling water and then shut the fire.
4. only at this stage when the fire is off, and while the water is very hot, put the ingredient with the powder into the water, to make noodle soup.
5. however, if you need dry noodles, take out the noodles and add the ingredient with the powder and toss it to get dry noodles.
Please share this info and help save a life.
Sunday, November 30, 2008
你不是真正的快乐-ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le
By Mayday
中哭着 你只想变成透明的颜色
ren qun zhong ku zhe ni zhi xiang bian cheng tou ming de yan se
Crying in the crowd, you just want to be a transparent colour
你再也不会梦或痛或心动了
ni zai ye bu hui meng huo tong huo xin dong le
You won’t ever dream or hurt or be touched anymore
你已经决定了 你已经决定了
ni yi jing jue ding le ni yi jing jue ding le
You’ve already decided, you’ve already decided
你静静忍着 紧紧把昨天在拳心握着
ni jing jing ren zhe jin jin ba zuo tian zai quan xin wo zhe
You quietly endure, tightly grasp yesterday in your fist
回忆越是甜就是越伤人
er hui yi yue shi tian jiu shi yue shang ren
but the sweeter the memory, the more damage it will cause
越是在手心留下密密麻麻深深切切淡掉了
yue shi zai shou xin liu xia mi mi ma ma shen shen qie qie dan diao le
And remain in your hand, the thick numbing deep close feeling wears off
你不是真正的快乐 你的笑只是你穿的保护色
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de xiao zhi shi ni chuan de bao hu se
You’re not genuinely happy, your smile is just the protective colour that you’re wearing
你决定不恨了 也决定不爱了
ni jue ding bu hen le ye jue ding bu ai le
You’ve decided not to hate, and decided not to love
把你的灵魂挂在永远锁上的躯壳
ba ni de ling hun gua zai yong yuan suo shang de qu ke
And leave your soul hanging to your forever locked up body
这世界笑了 于是你合群的一起笑了
zhe shi jie xiao le yu shi ni he qun de yi qi xiao le
This world smiled, and so you smiled together
当生存是规则不是你的选择
dang sheng cun shi gui ze bu shi ni de xuan ze
Pretended that living is a rule, not your choice
于是你含着眼泪飘飘荡荡跌跌撞撞地走着
yu shi ni han zhe yan lei piao piao dang dang die die zhuang zhuang de zou zhe
And so you hold your tears, floating and stumbling to continue your life
你不是真正的快乐 你的笑只是你穿的保护色
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de xiao zhi shi ni chuan de bao hu se
You’re not genuinely happy, your smile is just the protective colour that you’re wearing
你决定不恨了 也决定不爱了
ni jue ding bu hen le ye jue ding bu ai le
You have decided not to hate, and decided not to love
把你的灵魂挂在永远锁上的躯壳
ba ni de ling hun gua zai yong yuan suo shang de qu ke
And leave your soul hanging to your forever locked up body
你不是真正的快乐 你的伤从不肯完全的愈合
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de shang cong bu ken wan quan de yu he
You’re not genuinely happy, your wound never want to heal completely
我站在你左侧 却像隔着银河
wo zhan zai ni zuo ce que xiang ge zhe yin he
I stood on your left, but it seems like the Milky Way is between us
难道就真的抱着遗憾一直到老了 然后再后悔着
nan dao jiu zhen de bao zhe yi han yi zhi dao lao le ran hou zai hou hui zhe
Don’t tell me that we’ll have to carry our guilt until old, and then to remorse again
你不是真正的快乐 你的笑只是你穿的保护色
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de xiao zhi shi ni chuan de bao hu se
You’re not genuinely happy, your smile is just the protective colour that you’re wearing
你决定不恨了 也决定不爱了
ni jue ding bu hen le ye jue ding bu ai le
You have decided not to hate, and decided not to love
把你的灵魂挂在永远锁上的躯壳
ba ni de ling hun gua zai yong yuan suo shang de qu ke
And leave your soul hanging to your forever locked up body
你不是真正的快乐 你的伤从不肯完全的愈合
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de shang cong bu ken wang quan de yu he
You’re not genuinely happy, your wound never want to heal completely
我站在你左侧 却像隔着银河
wo zhan zai ni zuo ce que xiang ge zhe yin he
I stood on your left, but it seems like the Milky Way is between us
难道就真的抱着遗憾一直到老了
nan dao jiu zhen de bao zhe yi han yi zhi dao lao le
Don’t tell me that we’ll have to carry our guilt until old
你知道真正的快乐 你应该脱下你穿的保护色
ni zhi dao zhen zheng de kuai le ni ying gai tuo xia ni chuan de bao hu se
You knew the genuine happiness, you should take off the protective colour that you’re wearing
为什么失去了 还要被惩罚呢
wei shen me she qu le hai yao bei cheng fa ne
Why must I being punished even though I’ve lost you?
能不能就让配角全部结束在此刻
neng bu neng jiu rang pei jiao quan bu jie shu zai ci ke
Can you stop all the supporting roles at this moment
重新开始活着
chong xing kai shi huo zhe
And start living all over again