爱在不在

by Debbie Lim

思念它一直都不肯离开
夹着那些治不好的伤害
一边看你爱护我伤害我
像还不懂事的小孩

应该哭着还是笑着放开
我彻底被你打败
我已不懂 好与坏黑与白
爱到底是不是存在

我学着你口吻重复以前的字句
自导自演的悲剧
你走了 我还继续

每一天同时间都有那一场大雨
发烧怎么能痊愈
催眠我 用破碎的甜蜜

oh 爱 最后它是一种出卖
最后都失去了期待
所以爱消失得会那么快

oh 爱 舍不得你完美姿态
我相信你说的未来
我们的爱到底
回得来 回不来 在不在
拥抱了又被推开
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*coming up with Pin Yin soon...

A Song Per Day

Every time when i'm thinking of you
I just don't know what to do
Pinch myself when i'm dreaming of you,
Making sure that you could love me too
How it slipped away, all my happy days.

Though i'm acting cool, when i'm feeling blue,
Just to show you that i'm true with you,
while i never want it too.

How can the love so beautiful ever slip away,
When i get to the place,
I swear i'll write you a song each in everyday,
Oh, god i'm missing you is driving me so insane,
Standing all alone in pouring rain,
Can't explain can't explain all my pain

What is Your Love Language ?

My Score

Words of Affirmation (6)
Quality Time (10)
Receiving of Gifts (4)
Acts of Service (3)
Physical Touch (7)

Having a clear picture of your primary & secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior Think backover the past and ask yourself "What have I most often requested from significant others?" Chances are your answerwill lie within the scope of your primary & secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meetyour deepest need for emotional love.

Here's the link : http://www.greaterquest.com/LoveLanguages.asp

The Law of the Seed.. Choo's version =P

Suddenly got the urge to post this message and edit it abit...hehe...
Hope that this can "enlighten" some of us..hehe...
Have a nice day...

Okay...we'll take an apple tree as an example...
There might be five hundred apples on the tree and each apple has ten seeds.
500 X 10 = 5000 Seeds! That's a lot of seeds!

Some might ask,
"Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few more apple trees? 5000 seeds can grows to 5000 apple trees!"

BUT Nature has something to teach us here... It's telling us:

“Not all seeds grow. In life, most seeds never grow... maybe out of 5000 seeds...only 10% of it can grow into apple trees...”

So if you really want to make something happen, you had better try more than once...
same as when a baby learning how to walk...when they fell down...they'll never give up..they stand up and continue to walk again!
We should never give up so easily..and always remember to give yourself more than ONE option....

This might mean:

You'll attend twenty interviews just to get one job.
You'll interview fourty people just to find one good employee.
And you might meet a hundred acquaintances just to find one special friend.

When we understand the "Law of the Seed", we don't get so disappointed.
We stop feeling like victims as we learn how to deal with things that happen to us.
Laws of nature are not things to take personally...we just need to understand them and work with them.

When things are beyond your control, here's something that you must NOT DO so as to avoid misery in your life:
You must not decide how you think the world SHOULD be...(as you are not GOD..even GOD also will give us OPTIONS!)
You must not make rules for how everyone SHOULD behave. (note that everyone has their rights! =P)
Then, when the world doesn't obey your rules, you get angry!What the heck... this is only what a miserable people do!

Here...hmm...let's say you expect that:
Friends SHOULD return favours.
People SHOULD appreciate you.
Planes SHOULD arrive on time.
Everyone SHOULD be honest.
These expectations might sound reasonable. But very often, these things won't happen!
So you will end up frustrated and disappointed... Why should we end up like this?
Hmm....

There's always a better strategy...
Demand less, and instead, have preferences!
Do not always stick to one option!
For things that are beyond your control, tell yourself:
"I would prefer this, but if that happens, it’s OK too!"
This is really a change in mindset. It is a shift in attitude, and it gives you more peace of mind ...
For example...you prefer that people are polite ... but when they are rude, it doesn't ruin your day...
Or you prefer sunshine ... but if it rains, it is ok too right!

To become happier, we either need to:
a) Change the world, OR
b) Change our thinking...
BUT most of time it is easier to change our Thinking!
To change the world?? HAHA! Do it in your dreams perhaps.. =P

IN A NUTSHELL
It is not the problem that is the issue, but rather it is your attitude attending to the problem that is the problem.
It's not what happens to you that determines your happiness...It's how you think about what happens to you!

是否- Whether

是否這次我將真的離開你
shi fou zhe ci wo jiang zhen de li kai ni

是否這次我將不再哭
shi fou zhe ci wo jiang bu zai ku

是否這次我將一去不回頭
shi fou zhe ci wo jiang yi qu bu hui dou

走向那條漫漫永無止境的路
zou xiang nei tiao man man yong wu zhi jing de lu

是否這次我已真的離開你
shi fou zhe ci wo yi zhen de li kai ni

是否淚水已乾不再流
shi fou lei shui yi qian bu zai liu

是否應驗了我曾說的那句話
shi fou ying yan le wo ceng shuo de nei ju hua

情到深處人孤獨
qing dao shen chu ren gu du

多少次的寂寞掙扎在心頭
duo shao ci de ji mo zheng zha zai xin tou

只為挽回我將遠去的腳步
zhi wei wan hui wo jiang yuan qu de jiao bu

多少次我忍住胸口的略
duo shao ci wo ren zhu xiong kou de lue

只是為了告訴我自己我不在乎
zhi shi wei le gao su wo zi ji wo bu zai hu

是否這次我已真的離開你
shi fou zhe ci wo yi zhen de li kai ni

是否春水不再向東流
shi fou chun shui bu zai xiang dong liu

是否應驗了我曾說的那句話
shi fou ying yan le wo ceng shuo de nei ju hua

情到深處人孤獨
qing dao shen chu ren gu du

圍牆 - Wei Qiang -Wall

By Nicky...

A very nice song that represents our feelings...


不知不觉又过了几天　我想我习惯了忽略　去忽略没你的时间
bu zhi bu jue you guo le ji tian　wo xiang wo xi guan le hu lve　qu hu lve mei ni de shi jian

不近不远走在谁身边　我想我适应了一切　这一切没你的世界
bu jin bu yuan zou zai shui shen bian　wo xiang wo gua ying le yi qie　zhe yi qie mei ni de shi jie

某条路某条街　某首歌某间店　某种熟悉但如今却刺眼
mou tiao lu mou tiao jie　mou shou ge mou jian dian　mou chong shou xi dan ru jin que ci yan

不碰触不跨越　为自己留一些　安全界线
bu peng hong bu kua yue　wei zi ji liu yi xie　an quan jie xian

谁都以为不听不看也就没感觉　一转身　才发现
shui du yi wei bu ting bu kan ye jiu mei gan jue　yi zhuan shen　cai fa xian

空气里面　依旧飘散着记忆的气味
kong qi li mian　yi jiu piao san zhao ji yi de qi wei

是有所谓或无所谓也不能改变
shi you suo wei huo wu suo wei ye bu neng gai bian

原来是我　在爱上你的那瞬间　就困在围墙里面
yuan lai shi wo　zai ai shang ni de na shun jian　jiu kun zai wei qiang li mian

某条路某条街　某首歌首间店　某种熟悉但如今却刺眼
mou tiao lu mou tiao jie　mou shou ge shou jian dian　mou chong shou xi dan ru jin que ci yan

不碰触不跨越　为自己留一些安全界限
bu peng hong bu kua yue　wei zi ji liu yi xie an quan jie xian

谁都以为不听不看也就没感觉　一转身　才发现
shui du yi wei bu ting bu kan ye jiu mei gan jue　yi zhuan shen　cai fa xian

空气里面　依旧飘散着记忆的气味
kong qi li mian　yi jiu piao san zhao ji yi de qi wei

是有所谓或无所谓也不能改变
shi you suo wei huo wu suo wei ye bu neng gai bian

原来是我　在爱上你的那瞬间　就困在围墙里面
yuan lai shi wo　zai ai shang ni de na shun jian　jiu kun zai wei qiang li mian

谁都以为不听不看也就没感觉　一转身　才发现
shui du yi wei bu ting bu kan ye jiu mei gan jue　yi zhuan shen　cai fa xian

空气里面　依旧飘散着记忆的气味
kong qi li mian　yi jiu piao san zhao ji yi de qi wei

是有所谓或无所谓也不能改变
shi you suo wei huo wu suo wei ye bu neng gai bian

原来是我　在爱上你的那瞬间　就困在围墙里面
yuan lai shi wo　zai ai shang ni de na shun jian　jiu kun zai wei qiang li mian

多可悲　围墙都在对不对
duo ke bei　wei qiang du zai dui bu dui

Can I Borrow $25?

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'

DAD: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the man.

SON: 'Daddy, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the man said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'If you must know, I make $50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Daddy, may I please borrow $25?'

The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down , and started to
think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $25.00 and he really didn't ask for money very often The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.

'No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the man.
'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the
$25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Daddy, I have $50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to

have dinner with you.'

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $50 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.